Have you ever had a moment where you shared something really close to your heart— an idea, an exciting plan, a dream or a vision you were genuinely excited about?
You’ve found the courage to open up and tell someone you trusted, hoping they’d pile in with excitement and enthusiasm that matched yours.
Hoping they’d meet you in that moment of wild possibility. 😃
And all they could say was: “You’ve got this.”
I’ve been there.
Not only did it not help me believe I could do it, have it, be it — it took the wind right out of my sails.
✨In fact, being told “you’ve got this”, feels like exactly the opposite. ✨
It’s the verbal equivalent of a limp high-five. A polite smile. A shrug.
It’s a well-meaning but lazy sidestep from someone who doesn’t know what to say — or worse, can’t be bothered to say something real.
It’s meant to sound like support, but it lands like disinterest.
A pat on the back when what you actually want is was someone to grab your hand, eyes wide with excitement and say:
“Yes! I love this for you — tell me more!”
You’re Not Looking for a Cheerleader
You’re looking for a co-conspirator.
A wingwoman. A strategist.
A Fairy Godmother with a sharp eye and a bias for brilliance.
Someone who doesn’t just tell you to believe in yourself — but shows up beside you and helps you turn that glimmer of self-belief into actual magic. ✨
Why “You’ve Got This” Isn’t Helping (And What to Say Instead)
When you’re building something bold — whether it’s a business, a brand, a next-level lifestyle, or a lingerie drawer that feels like a celebration of who you really are— you don’t need vague encouragement.
You need confidence.
Action.
Actual co-creation.
That’s where I come in.
I’m not here to throw you a mantra and move on.
I’m here to roll up my sleeves, pour us a glass of something delicious to get the creativity flowing, and sit with you and say:
“Tell me more. What do you need? What’s the dream—and how do we bring it to life?”
Because your vision is incredible!
It’s exciting, and bold, and mind-blowing.
And it deserves more than a back-pat and a cliché.
It deserves support that’s smart, elegant, nuanced — and actually makes things happen.
What Real Support Sounds Like
So in the spirit of real, meaningful support, let’s rewrite the script.
Here’s what I say instead of “you’ve got this”:
- “That’s a brilliant idea! Wanna make it real?”
- “I totally see this for you— how can I help you get there?”
- “This has your name all over it. Want some help to make it happen?”
- “You’re onto something here. What does the next bold (but do-able) move look like?”
This is how I show up.
Not on the sidelines. But right there beside you — sleeves rolled, enthusiasm engaged, and always with strategy on hand.
This Isn’t Cookie-Cutter. It’s Custom.
Every client I work with gets bespoke support — not just because it’s more beautiful (though it is), but because it’s more true.
Whether we’re building your brand, refining your client experience, reimagining your offerings, or reviving your confidence — I’m adapting everything I do to you. Your voice. Your values. Your vision.
And if you’ve ever worked with me, you know this isn’t just talk.
Just ask Emma:
“I’ve found your questions and your thoughts very considerate… you’ve always really considered everything that we’ve said and responded with something very valuable and helpful.”
Or Richard:
“You’ve given me a really good action to try and push forward… several, actually.”
Or Susie:
“Now I’m energised and FULL of ideas—thank you!”
So the next time someone says “You’ve got this,”
Pause.
And remember:
You don’t need empty encouragement. Or lipservice from someone who hasn’t been where you are— or aspires to where you want to get to.
You need a plan. A partner. And a wildly personalised approach that makes your dream feel not just possible — but inevitable.
And that’s where I come in.
Whether you’re dreaming of:
🧱 Building a business that finally feels aligned and luxurious on your terms
✨ Reconnecting with your purpose after a creative dry spell
👙 Or slipping into lingerie that makes you feel radiant and irresistible
Your personal Reinventress.
– Sarah C
P.S. Whether you’re finally ready to bring that business idea out of your notes app and into the real world — or you’re craving a confidence boost that starts in your lingerie drawer — I’m here to help you make it happen.
✨ If your next chapter is business-shaped, begin with a complimentary Breakthrough Session where we’ll:
– Clarify your vision and uncover what’s really holding you back
– Map out smart, strategic next steps tailored to your goals
– Create momentum with bespoke support that feels as good as it looks
✨ Or if you’re craving more confidence, sensuality, and self-expression, book a complimentary Uncover Your Signature Lingerie Looks session to:
– Explore your personal style and power
– Reveal looks that make you feel radiant, magnetic, and deeply you
– Begin showing up as the woman you’re becoming — from the inside out
So… where does your reinvention begin?
🔥 Choose your path and book your session here.
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Because belief is powerful. But belief backed by action? That’s where the magic happens. 💫
Feeling fired up? Slide into my DMs and tell me your next big idea. I’ll send a little inspiration boost to cheer you on — for real.
Thank you so much for reading!